3 things you can do at home to support your child as they transition to school

Of course, transitions like these are central to a child’s development, and research shows that the way transitions in early childhood are handled can have an impact on a child’s ability to cope with change. Knowing how to prepare for that first day of kindergarten by taking a few simple steps can ease anxiety and fears and help children get their kindergarten year off to a flying start.

Each child will respond differently, and nobody knows your child better than you. We’ve collated some tips for getting children prepared and excited for this big step in their education.

1. Have positive conversations with your child about moving up to kindy

Start introducing the idea of going to kindergarten to your child and speak enthusiastically about the interesting things they will get to learn, the new friends that they will make and the new routine they get to establish. Not only is this a great way to alleviate concerns but it provides the perfect prompts for questions about what your child is looking forward to.

2. Involve your child as much as possible

Actively involving your child in the preparations for starting kindergarten will support them in owning their growth and transition into kindergarten. Bringing your child along when planning and collecting all of their school supplies like their lunchbox, backpack and uniform elements allows them to build excitement but also air concerns and questions throughout the process.

3. Help your child stay in touch with old friends

Losing friendships is a valid concern for children who may not be joining their friends at kindergarten. Research shows that preschool friendships are important for the development of social and emotional skills, and that they can increase feelings of belonging while decreasing stress.

Discuss with your child the fact that they will make new friends, but that this doesn’t mean they will have to choose between their old friends and their new friends. Of course, it’s natural for some friendships to fizzle out over time, but in the early stages of a school transition, it’s important to reassure your child that changing schools doesn’t have to mean losing a good friend.

So if your child has a close friend or group of friends from St Nicholas, think of some ways to help them keep in touch after they move on. For example, you could organise play dates or even look for after-school activities, such as sports or dance, which they could join together.