Beating the ‘back to school / early learning’ burnout

The return to care and school can feel like a whirlwind – new routines, emotional drop-offs, lunchboxes and early mornings. It’s a lot for children and their families.

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Some families may be starting to feel the mid-term slump and that’s completely normal. Here are some simple strategies to help our families ease back into the year with a little more calm and a lot more confidence:

For St Nicholas Early Education Families

  1. Keep drop‑offs short and consistent: A predictable goodbye routine helps children feel secure. A hug, a phrase (“Have a great day, I’ll be back after afternoon tea”), and a confident exit works wonders.
  2. Expect regression: Sleep changes, toileting setbacks, clinginess – all normal signs of adjusting. They’re not steps backwards, just signs your child is processing change.
  3. Prioritise connection at home: After a big day, little ones need closeness. Extra cuddles, reading together, or quiet play helps them regulate.
  4. Keep evenings calm: Avoid overstimulation. Simple dinners, early baths, and gentle play help children reset for the next day.
  5. Don’t overfill weekends: Children need downtime to recover from busy weeks. Slow mornings and unstructured play help them recharge.
  6. Communicate with educators: Share what’s happening at home and ask how your child is settling. Educators can offer reassurance and strategies tailored to your child.
  7. Be kind to yourself: Early education transitions are emotionally heavy for parents too. Your feelings are valid, and you’re doing a great job.

For St Nicholas OOSH Families

  1. Keep routines light and predictable: Choose one or two routine anchors — like a consistent wake‑up time and a simple bedtime rhythm. Kids settle faster when the basics stay the same.
  2. Prep only what matters: Instead of trying to organise everything the night before, pick one thing to prepare. A small win is enough to make mornings smoother.
  3. Protect slow afternoons: The first few weeks back are tiring. Keep after‑school time gentle: free play, quiet time, or a simple walk together.
  4. Simplify lunchboxes: Stick to familiar foods and repeat favourites. Predictability helps children feel secure during transitions.
  5. Build in “parent pause” moments: Even five minutes of stillness can reset your energy. A cup of tea, a deep breath in the car, or a short walk makes a difference.
  6. Expect big feelings: School‑aged children often show tiredness through irritability or clinginess. It’s normal — and temporary.
  7. Lean on your village: Swap pickups, use OOSH for an extra afternoon, or ask a friend for help. Community support lightens the load.
  8. Celebrate the small wins: A smoother drop‑off, a happy story from the day, or a calm morning deserves recognition.

A gentle reminder for families

The start of the year is a big shift for children and adults, and everyone needs time to find their rhythm again. With small routines, realistic expectations, and a little self‑compassion, your family can ease into the new term feeling supported and steady.

Your educators are here to help. Make sure to check in with your child’s educators – communication is key to supporting children as they begin another year of learning and growth.